Relationship Split-How To Cope With Breakup
After what seemed to be a good relationship,when the dust settles,it may be difficult for some people to figure out how to cope with breakup. They begin to start thinking about everything that they could have done differently. They even think about apology letters and other things that might help them rekindle their relationship.
This can be the same as going the wrong way on a one way street. The reason being: You can never really tell what the real reasons for the breakup were. It can be an emotional time and both parties may not even know what led to the split or know why they feel the way they do. In many instances you may use all your energy just trying to figure out what went wrong.
When coping with a breakup",you need to forget about the relationship for a while. Direct your time and energy somewhere else. Go out,have fun,make friends,and forget about the opposite sex in general.(Ok,try) Set some realistic goals about meeting people and expanding your "wealth" of information when it comes to art of seduction.
Give yourself a few months and make changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders.
This will allow you to make gradual changes in your life. After a couple of months you may have a much better idea of how you perceive the subject of relationships and how you want to proceed with your ex. Do you still want them back? Or are you ready to move on? If you still want to get back together, now is the time to find out how they feel about you.
You need to be more direct when it comes to getting your ex back. But you also need to have an action plan. Do not be emotional and simply beg them to get back with you.Instead, play cool and be calm. If you have spent enough time apart, they are probably missing you just as much as you are missing them. Play hard to get(a little)and show that you are doing fine. This will make them really rethink things.
And if getting back together is really meant to be, now is the time
when it will truly show. When you are sorting everything out, be careful
not to over analyze things, because that may prevent you from making
the right decisions . Just take things slow and be cool and you should